Beliefs are of limited value if they’re not translated into behaviors. The things we do repeatedly are the evidence of our commitments. When we commit to the right things, we enjoy right consequences. When we commit to the wrong things, we suffer the consequences. Far more telling than a person’s beliefs are his or her commitments. Are your commitments helping or hurting you? Look to the consequences being created for the answer.
I whole-heartedly agree, Mark. People will often state what they WANT to believe, but then deny those words with their actions. The difference between what they WANT to believe and what they ACTUALLY believe is measured in their behaviors. Behaviors typically require some level of commitment. Hesitation indicates less commitment; Full-blown “living out loud” behaviors reflect more/complate commitment. (I guess the saying “actions speak louder than words” is really about beliefs then, eh?)
Regardless of the end of the commitment spectrum, the consequences are what they are. As you say, if people want different consequences, then look to the behaviors and the beliefs that caused them. Ironically, we have complete control of our beliefs…and, therefore, our…consequences? Yes.
Free will is a fearfully, wonderful (made) thing.
Good food for thought, Mark. Thanks for the post.
The OTHER Mark