I just spoke with a manager who told me of a recent meeting that degenerated into bickering and complaining (commonly known as a bitch session). Nothing was accomplished.
It seems to me there are two sides to most situations: the winning side and the whining side.
Whiners focus on problems; winners focus on solutions.
Whiners blame; winners take responsibility.
Whiners explain why it won’t work; winners focus on how to make it work.
Whining is easy and requires no skill. Winning is tough and requires hard work.
Which side are you on?